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The Best Poly Feedback

The best poly feedback I've ever been given


I had occasion tonight to repeat the best poly feedback I've ever been given.

It came to me compliments of Merkanas. I looked at him and said "I'm worried that I'll come between you and attnwhor."

He shook his head and said "You can't come between me and attnwhor. Listen to the sentence you just uttered. Me...and attnwhor. You're not in the sentence."

It hit me like a ton of bricks. Duh! Attnwhor is her own woman and she's choosing Merkanas AND myself for her reasons (and we are choosing her for our reasons) and I can no more get between attnwhor and Merkanas than Merkanas can get between attnwhor and I (well, except for this one night we had a 3 some ;-)

It made so much sense I wondered how until then I'd missed it.

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