What if? Who With?
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From "what if" to "who with" how kink changed how I gauge risk...
I've been told the journey into the kink world is in fact a wonderful adventure deep into yourself and here is part of mine.
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When I first entered the kink world I met a lot of what ifs...
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What if the "sub" isn't actually a sub and accuses you of...you need to think about...
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What if the "dom" is actually a predator or emotional manipulator who...
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What if "they come by your house and then"
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I've written any number of responses to the "what if" crowd including "Why I open my home to fet events" but I have an alternate question for you to consider.
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Not what if but who with? Look, I don't know what "what if" will hit you next. Your parents pass, or your kid fucks up or you suffer from some
disease or a leader you admire is lost to cancer way to soon or whatever...
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I don't know what if you're living in fear of but here is my thoughts on what if, when the "what if" arrives whom with will you face it with?
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Me, I don't know what if is next but between my attnwhor and merkanas...Dear life, you don't know who you're fucking with! We've beaten back hell several times and we're up to doing it again...and shit...
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So I don't really know "what if", I do know when "what if" gets here whom I'll face it with and whatever that "what if" is, you're fucking with the wrong poly home.
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Me, I got my poly family, my bio family, my friend and you fuck with me, you better bring a fucking army, because I don't know what if, but I know who I'm with on this adventure you the "what if" better get ready for a mass fucking 'cause I've picked some great "who with" (you reading along) and the rest is details to my mind...
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