No Means No
What part of NO don't you understand?
I'm re-reading and reviewing my party rules and house rules for reasons (redacted).
As I do I'm getting somethings and mildly tweaking others but there is something I really don't understand why I have to explain.
What part of NO means NO don't you understand?
No doesn't mean maybe. No doesn't mean ask again in a different way. No doesn't mean ask a different question or ask for a different kink, it means NO you dumb-ass.
How many times does she have to say it? 2? 3? 4? N----O---.
And NO, she doesn't owe you an explanation why she said no.
This isn't about you, it's about her. She said NO.
I don't know why. Maybe she's got a significant other she values over you. Or maybe she doesn't like your kink. Or maybe she's over tired from a stressful day and just doesn't want to play. Or maybe she's in a mental space all her own I can't explain. But her reason for saying no has nothing to do with the topic at hand.
She said NO. Want me to spell it for you. N (not interested) O (over this current discussion). NO. Any questions?
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